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hey readers/lovers
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started in Jan 2012 to Jan 2015. full on 3 active years on this blog. but this year 2015 was different. didn't get a single time to load anything. will try to return in 2016 if possible.. otherwise

got few mails/fb messages regarding return on blog. sorry i could not

started this writing when i was evaluating people and their relationships while examining mine.

now it's time to give someone else attention and settle in this new country. may be in next blog i'll write about people in America and their relationships after marriage & what happens when you find THE ONE. need some time.

thanks
love u all

HAPPY HOLIDAYS

~ Amoeba

This creature can change a shape or form. It’s not true. I meant everybody can.

People change. So do cities. With time. But this change is constant. Either in a good way or not.

I remember many women from past generations

had changed themselves or we can say moulded according to new people and surroundings, especially after marriage. From food habits to lifestyle. So many things in accordance with husband and family. But they seemed to be happy at one level for this change of pattern.

Some call it as compromise, while few as adjustment.

But I believe we are bounded by love and that is a perfect concept when we do few things for that special person in our life when we don’t like those.

Somebody told me about tea (not a green one) addiction few months before. And I’m a die hard coffee lover. Will I’ve to change my coffee with tea? Or will it happen with time without me complaining??

No matter how much stubborn we are, but at some point we need to settle for something stable. Something which is precious than our habits and likes.

This is the moment when that I fall down and it becomes WE. Knowingly or unknowingly we think less and do things just to see that person happy. Even we realize that it’s not our favorite thing. But we do it and we smile at the end.

That’s my friend power of love. Beyond I and You

Or is there any solution as same thing in different forms??

~ Temple of Truth

This is true & it does exist in Thailand. Some

prefer it as “The Sanctuary of Truth”.

Although ancient but we all need such temples in recent time. May be it is not possible at every other place, that’s why lie detectors got invented. It’s hard to find out because people hide it very well. Somewhere below the skin & there is no easy way to find the truth.

100% truth is difficult thing in 21^st century & it is ideal too, in some cases where we don’t need to open things totally. Hide & seek is always a part of life and we all enjoy it. If one won’t hide it then how other will find it out? Mystery is fascinated from generation to generation.

Few things remains as secret always.

Those are the most interesting ones.

The stories that we never tell anyone.

Ssshhh…

~ we all live Spherical

These are not my lines but I heard and I started looking for all circular things around and happening in life..

You get only if you give. It’s about love. Then what about pain. Is it the same rule to follow here too??

We start living our life and don’t realize that what was our beginning. But after sometime, it starts to follow same pattern.. again and again

What we thought was different, it turns out to be same play with different theater and different artists. still we enjoy the ride and start our journey.. in search of new play.. with new hope that one day it will turn out to be .. different

Back to square one.. where I started

Yes it’s spherical … 

~ Reverse gear

Yes it does exist in vehicles.

But how about in our lives? And especially in relationships? Can we introduce this and make things perfect?

We all spoil our relationships or may be it happens because of some or other reasons.

Sometimes we don’t want to correct those or sometimes we just feel like to ignore those and move on. But if we get one chance to correct things by going in past or applying this reverse gear, then .. ??

Can we really handle this? I meant there are more than one mistakes. So one is not enough. But atleast somewhere things can go back to one level. And we can start fresh.

But after certain time, things will need one more reverse gear and this time we can’t find it.

In this situation, what was the use of that chance?? We applied and again we messed up. Is this cycle is gonna stop anywhere or we don’t need any gear for this. Or time to change vehicle?? Which way to choose??

Any? ?

~ Do I Know You??

That day I was taking a walk as usual on my favorite road of city. Full of people which we call it as crowd. Faces which you had never seen or not gonna see in future… perhaps… strangers

What is the definition of stranger?

Suddenly he came and waved me. Who? I don’t know. Never seen him before as he was very ordinary too.

“Remember me?”  he questioned and I had nothing to say because he was confident that we know each other but I was blank.

“Do I know you?”

That’s the obvious question which comes in conversation when we meet people. But knowing someone means what? Can we specify it? General recognition can be called as knowing the person? In one meeting can we know someone?

This thought took me to long time back when one of my friend was getting into relationship. He realized the opposite person in few days but he thought it might be different after some days because there were just few meetings. But later his previous conclusion proved right about that guy. so here can we conclude that we can know someone in few meetings too???

They says it takes a lifetime to know someone. So do we need to spend whole life together to know someone??? Do we have that much time?

Is there any time frame for this question? any basic concepts or fixed definition??

Questions are unanswered…

~ Self on a shelf

“I love you baby, more than myself.”

She was on her cell, next to me in that café. But I heard it loud and started thinking on it.. Is this really possible? Or we just use it like our all sugar coated love lines??

Loving someone more than ourselves means what? Means taking his or her name 100 times a day or thinking about them before we think about what we want??

Few months back one of my friend asked me why now a days relationships fall apart before we order happy meal at McD?

That time I simply said that “We love ourselves so much that we don’t get time to love someone else.” If this is true, then what that girl said was a lie?? Or is it allowed in recent days to maintain relationships??

Can we keep ourselves on shelf for some time

and think about what opposite person want? Or is it just about I Me and Myself ??

Is it ???