~ Baggage

Every journey has it and every travel has specified limit for it. Even while traveling from airlines, they have limitations to carry it.. but what about relationships? I meant baggage of our past relationship.. how much is the excess ??

Once we end up with our ex, we try to forget all the drama and after some time period .. we start our new journey with our new relationship. But whatever happened previously does really remain in past?? Do we carry everything in our next relationship?? All those good and bad memories travel along with us and pops up so many times in front of that special person.. can that person bare all this load of our past and accept us with it?? Or he/she always tries to manage between old bags and present ones ??

Listening to whatever happened is one thing, but realizing that it still bothering between two is really hard. How to identify our limit for this extra baggage which we had to leave in past before entering into new one???

Why this ex thing never remains as ex and some of our part of heart always carry this baggage ???

Do we need to stop pulling it with us and let ourselves free from it ?? or is there any another way to walk freely ?? ??

~ Quick bites

Let’s go for some quicky. And this line made me to think. It was regarding food, but I got to thinking about all those instant and quick bites in our lives.

We chat with unknown people. Interact with unknown faces. Have sex with strangers. Isn’t it too strange that we think less and run behind things fast rather than thinking and investing time in one specific person!

Instant food.. instant sex.. now what’s next in this line??  Instant relationships? Or are we already doing those?

Going better or for worse ??

~ Lost & Found

It’s there.. out there.. you can see it but.. you can’t reach

Or sometimes you don’t want to & we loose it… it’s Lost now

Somewhere in past. Buried down under. And we are not sure when we will dig it out or not.

We are talking about feelings. Once they are gone, they are gone. There is no return ticket for those.

Is this true ??

What if we find it again?? May be circumstances are different but feelings are same. Does this really happen? Is this possible??

But it happens & we find it .. I found it

Will this game of Lost & Found will ever stop ?

Or is this like dreams ? see it. Believe it. Live it. Forget it.

Dreams may not come true always but this game continues .. ..

~ I 2 V

I love this movie. I am not going for this parade. I hate it. I am …. Too many “I”s in one single line and too many “I”s in one single life. After all it’s all about loving ourselves. Finale truth is I me Myself and we live with it since we born. Till … Someone enters

And this I start into V

This stage comes in everybody’s life. Sooner or later. But it happens one day. And eventually we all started to like this. But real question has yet to come

How to identify that we are ready for V thing in our life??

Are there any norms or any signs to follow and get our answer??

Any questionnaire to answer and check with answers like those Sunday times riddles?

And result gives us that finally we are ready to open our doors for someone to enter and capture it??

What happens next is another thing but most of the time we say I am not ready for it. Then how to identify that we are finally ready??

Journey starts from I 2 V

~ From market To market ..

Shopping is something which everybody enjoy but when market is of humans then can we dare to enter in that ??

We enter in this market one day with hesitation and curiosity. All the fresh looked items and attractive wrappers are very tempting to have it .. to touch it. We can’t move our eyes. We are also part of that market but we don’t realise at early stage. Just roam around how long time you want, that’s the rule of this market. But there are few more also which are hidden behind.

Who wont try to handle those items while roaming around. But remember that these are used ones. Not once but multiple hand users. Still looks like fresh factory made. What’s inside of these items ?? Are they really that worth to have it ??

Yes you can have it but can’t carry it because they have boundaries of this street. But still sometimes we can’t resist and carry it at our home called as life. And finally we hang it on our walls or keeps on shelves. But one day they gets fainted because they have shelf life which we didn’t observe while buying.. Now it’s time to remove those. Throw it or just make it disappear so that you can’t see it in front of our eyes again because we faced troubles due to those..

Done with dustbin thing ?? Now relax. But that’s not it. One day by chance we make a visit to market again .. Although had decided not to return. But tempt huh ??

Market is still alive. Road is same but shops have changed. New looked items are in windows. But what’s that ?? Why many of the items are familiar ?? have seen few somewhere ?? And what’s this ?? My God!! That’s my item which I removed from my wall .. How ?? When ?? Why ??

??? ???

That’s the golden rule .. There’s no other way and there’s no recycle bin ..

It’s circular .. from Market .. to Market ..

~ Please … GO

We hold it so firmly so that we wont loose it at any cost. Insecurity in relationship is a symbol of how much we want that person in our life. While carrying one simple carry bag, we take care that it wont fell down or get slipped from our hands. Then definitely when it comes on a person or relationship, we will be at our extreme care.

But as it says, we can’t change whatever is written in our destiny. And that time comes when we allow someone to go far or we let him go by ourselves. This is the same person for whom we kept our firm hold, and now we are letting that person to go away.

But worst situation is when we want that person not to leave and we have to tell that please…. GO

~ 7+3=10

This is the truth but when this is about people in their looks then does it create problems especially when it’s about choosing???

If one has looks around 3 then can he/she expect someone smarter? After all that smarty will also think same! Then how much are the chances to get better than me? Or should one have to go for equals?

Keeping high expectations is good but does it always come true? Or they just remain as dreams only?

One of my friend met a guy who was average in looks than him. But my friend’s desire for guys is taller, smarter than him. So it was definitely not going to work out. But twist is that guy was really caring n loving than any other handsome one. And my friend had really nice time with him. So now question comes that should my he has to keep his expectations aside n go for this guy who is 3 when himself is 7???

What matters most? External appearance or inner soul?

~ The real question

They say you can’t see the stars in day or sun in the night. What will happen if it does?? Then an importance of these things will be the same??

Certain things and certain people have their own timings to enter in our life or to appear in front of our eyes. When it’s in front of you, then you feel like to have it more. You try to get tempted to that and your world is fascinated. Yes it happens and gets finished also with its pre decided time. But later when you think of it, you don’t feel that zsa zsa zsu afterwards. It was the moment and it’s gone. We enjoyed the time but now don’t need it that much. We feel like it’s done and let’s move on for next thing.

One of my friend met a guy 5-6 years ago. And they met again. Again. And again. But in 6 years, they met for only 6 times and only at odd hours of night. As the day arise, they got departed. Night was superb but one question arises that what will happen if they will meet in a sunlight?? Will everything will be the same as night??

Some says we depart to meet again. But what if we don’t know that whether we are really gonna meet up or not in future?? And when ??

Now that is a real question..

~ An affair with an Ex…

It’s over .. That’s the base of every break up. But does that happen everytime? Ending a relationship means ending it for lifetime? Are there chances of coming together again in future? Or at least an affair???

One of my friend had a major break up. It was one of those where you don’t feel like to see that person’s face again in life. But life doesn’t stop.. He again found someone and sailed his boat for sailing. 

And here comes twist … Twist as re-entry of his Ex!!!

Oops it was unbelievable. But his Ex realises him when they apart and wanted him back. Is it possible??? Going someday and returning??? What might be reason behind it? He wants him back because he can’t have him anymore??? Is it?? Or some other things ??

Things are pretty normal till here .. But what if it starts again all over? And what if you make ur Ex as an affair and have your current as lunch?? Possible to have two lunches at one time or another as brunch ??

?

~ So classic..

Neither I’m aged person nor my friends. But many things in current days feels like classical. Unfortunately few are rarely maintained by very few people. For example dating. Yes it still exists but modern way. Or you can say not like before. Meeting over coffee doesn’t mean actual coffee now. It’s just meeting or seeing for a moment and proceed.

I remember I used to spend whole evening and night out and used to return on next morning. Gash.. I miss that walk of shame  !!

Coffee dinner walk drive things were actually in dating ritual. And definitely things at night after all these warm ups. All were magical. All were fresh. 

I hardly remember me or any of my friends have spend such night outs in these days. After fast food I guess instant sex is next on menu now a days.

Is it ?? ?? 

Change is always necessary in life and in society too. We are accepting these changes and moulding ourselves according to these. What’s next gonna be in dating?? 

Any predictions ? ? ?

~ 30 something

Still I haven’t crossed it yet but where I will be after my 30? This question has arised because I’m unable to find these of my ex known people since they have crossed this age or came near to this.

As one changes his city, chances of his vanishment is considerable. But living in same city or sometimes going somewhere lost in between suddenly is something quite mysterious. Is it a new game of hide and seek?

N number of people came in my and many of my friend’s lives. In the form of mates or partners or lovers. But almost all of them have disappeared after one stage and that is their 30+. Is there any kind of rule that you need to go somewhere far from all by this? Or is it just boredome of doing same stuffs in life and need a change?

Now where to find these people? Back in history or on strange roads of future? Are there any signs to search them? And what will we do if we’ll find them??

~ I Love You … Again

These three words mean a lot in one’s life. Especially if it’s valentine’s day is near by or something. Just use these to express feelings and love but do we use these special words to just one person in our life time? What if we say I Love You to more than one person in our life?

Is it possible to fall in love again after break up?

Love just happens once or one more time also? Is it possible?

One of my friend fall in love and that relationship lasted for almost a year. Naturally they had break up but my friend again fall for someone else after some time. Those magical three words came in his life again.

When we say I love you to someone, do we really mean it from our heart or just attraction of that time? And where that love goes when we break up?

We eat two times in a day, sometimes more than that also. Do same things in life more than one time. So why not to love one more time or more than that?

Can we love again n again n again …. ?  

~ Reservations for ONE

Being single in city is not much easy but it’s pretty common as well. It’s like an interval between two parts of a movie. But what if this interval lasts for a long run??

You see lot of people around who are single like you but unfortunately we can’t date them or have them. Isn’t it good to be with yourself rather than running behind things ??

When we are with someone .. We look out for our space and when we get it like this .. What to do with this BIG time ?? Start hunting ??

Going out for a movie ?? Dare to ask for a single ticket ??

Going for dinner ?? Table for ONE ??

Why all restaurants have two chairs when there is single table and thousands of singles ?? can anybody tell them to remove one??

Many things you can do by alone like going on a walk .. going for shopping .. Then why do we need plus one ?? when everything is perfect, that another chair is waiting for someone..

1+1=2 But if sometimes 1+1=1 only .. Then what’s next ???