~ Do I Know You??

That day I was taking a walk as usual on my favorite road of city. Full of people which we call it as crowd. Faces which you had never seen or not gonna see in future… perhaps… strangers

What is the definition of stranger?

Suddenly he came and waved me. Who? I don’t know. Never seen him before as he was very ordinary too.

“Remember me?”  he questioned and I had nothing to say because he was confident that we know each other but I was blank.

“Do I know you?”

That’s the obvious question which comes in conversation when we meet people. But knowing someone means what? Can we specify it? General recognition can be called as knowing the person? In one meeting can we know someone?

This thought took me to long time back when one of my friend was getting into relationship. He realized the opposite person in few days but he thought it might be different after some days because there were just few meetings. But later his previous conclusion proved right about that guy. so here can we conclude that we can know someone in few meetings too???

They says it takes a lifetime to know someone. So do we need to spend whole life together to know someone??? Do we have that much time?

Is there any time frame for this question? any basic concepts or fixed definition??

Questions are unanswered…

~ Self on a shelf

“I love you baby, more than myself.”

She was on her cell, next to me in that café. But I heard it loud and started thinking on it.. Is this really possible? Or we just use it like our all sugar coated love lines??

Loving someone more than ourselves means what? Means taking his or her name 100 times a day or thinking about them before we think about what we want??

Few months back one of my friend asked me why now a days relationships fall apart before we order happy meal at McD?

That time I simply said that “We love ourselves so much that we don’t get time to love someone else.” If this is true, then what that girl said was a lie?? Or is it allowed in recent days to maintain relationships??

Can we keep ourselves on shelf for some time

and think about what opposite person want? Or is it just about I Me and Myself ??

Is it ???

~ Full time or Part time??

Nope it is not a job but a relationship. Having somebody in life and on the same time not having too. What does that mean? Live-in relationships are one of the kind but when you have separate lives then things are different.

You meet for some time and depart. In this mean time, you spend, you see, you feel and you want. But sometimes you don’t wanna have for 24hrs. Why not?? If you like someone then what’s the problem to have that person for constant time? You waited to see that person and after meeting, you are back to your life.. Is this a healthy thing??

What might be a reason that you want your space? Keeping separate gives us relief from all the problems which occurs after having for uninterrupted time period?? Are there any other things or priorities which we choose over this person? That’s why we want to give short period of time to person and more time span for ME.. ??

Or does this give any options to have another one too???

What’s the truth?

~ Serial Dater

“He dumped me for no reasons and now he is with someone else”, I was listening to my friend’s dumped story and this was expected little bit. But still I shocked. I meant since when people started dating so rapidly??

It’s not a railway platform or any multiplex screen where after one train another one comes and after one movie next gets its place on Friday. It’s a relationship where two living people are concerned with their broken hearts and expectations. In such cases, how much involvement can be considered?? How much genuineness is there when it’s serial dating? Or is it just the way to keep you busy till right person comes along?

Is there any time limit specified to halt between two relationships?? Or is it 2 mins break like current television trends?

They say you need to kiss 99 frogs before you find prince charming. Then can we call that princess as serial kisser or just a love finder?

Answer lies within only we need to search. And this search takes us to journey which is unending and exciting. Only we need to travel till we find right companion and right path although we don’t know where it leads

~ With X-tra

Can I’ve one McVeggie with extra cheese? And this question raised many more questions in my mind. Something with extra.. actually we want everything with extra only. Think how many times we do this

Pizza with extra toppings. Talktime with extra bonus mins. Chinese food with extra noodles. And thing does not stop at food and utility only. It has entered in our bedroom too. With extra time for longer pleasure. . .

Eventually it has to enter in our relationships too.

When we meet someone, we want more. Start dating then extra attention. In a relationship, extra togetherness. Living together then extra space for each other.

This never stops with time. Can’t we stop at something and wont demand more??

Things in present are not enough or is it our habit? ? ?

No more "extra" discussions on this

~ Born to hurt

I want it that way ..

No I’m not saying this, backstreet boys said it

But we all desire for this line and started applying it to our day to day lives. And obviously this applies to current relationship patterns too.. but how successful this line is ??

We all dream for love. We all dream for perfect relationship. But when these two things get mixed, then sometimes it’s deadly combo.. but still it’s a joy ride till someone gets hurt

Expecting something which opposite person can’t fulfill is starting of problem.

Can we skip all these expectations and enjoy each other’s company??

Or are we born this way?? To get hurt .. everytime